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Andrew Bartlett's avatar

Billy Graham’s rule was probably a wise precaution in his special circumstances (high profile, constant travel, meeting unknown people). But to make it into a general rule is not compatible with Scripture. "Treat … older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity" 1 Timothy 5:1-2 (NIV). Should men generally refuse to be in the same place as their mother or sister, without a chaperone? The idea is absurd.

In the subculture that you describe, women are seen as a threat to men. That is a mile away from the New Testament expectation of positive interaction between men and women as Christian brothers and sisters – an experience that should be normal but is too often absent from that subculture.

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Barbara Roberts's avatar

The BGR rule also prevents an aggrieved woman carrying out Matt 18:15 with a man who has offended her. It may also hold a man back from carrying out Matt 18:15 with a woman who he believes has offended him.

I’ve experienced this first hand. It hurts! The man is ignoring my attempts to resolve the problem.

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