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Kate R's avatar

Thank you for the encouraging support, it makes things much less stressful and difficult to withstand when there’s clear and biblical teaching/thought on such a vexed matter. Readers, do not muzzle the ox…..go read Gal 6:6…..head over to the supporters page, if you can, and measure out some practical support for such a needed ministry.

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David Frank's avatar

I'm sure I need to get your book on order to hear how you tie all the pieces together, but I feel like I see a sort of self-fulfilling prophecy. If we tell single people that they are going to be lonely until they get married, then they will not look to build meaningful relationships/community (and the lonely married people will shame their marriage for failing to meet their needs). And so, because these condemnations of singleness have been offered for decades, there is a sort of on the ground difficult-to-sustain reality for singles in this culture of coupling (as you mention, many single folks get relationally abandoned). Andy Stanley is theologically incorrect, and yet not entirely descriptively incorrect. But of course what should be called for is not a changing of sexual ethics, but a change of community practice (and maybe even household structures... c.f. The Life We're Looking For by Andy Crouch).

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