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Rachael Garner's avatar

Dani, I'm newer to your work and already so profoundly grateful for it. In some ways, I'm grateful for the delayed introduction, since I've been talking about similar things for a while now and would have been guilty of plagiarization! I recently emphasized in a women's conference on sexuality (I'm a Christian sex therapist) that we are created as sexual beings, and that erotic sexual behaviors are only a small part of that sexuality. And so, acknowledging and embracing this, that we relate to one another as sexual beings and not always inside the bounds of the erotic, actually frees us to relate wholly and truly with one another, modeling the oneness that Christ called his Church to in John 17. Thank you for articulating this more fully here. Keep on!

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Pete Jobes's avatar

The thing that I find saddest about this thinking is that as an unmarried Christian you basically spend your whole twenties and thirties losing friendships. It's an inevitable part of a culture that thinks this way. And then we wonder why so many in the position no longer continue to be as much, or sometimes any, part of the body.

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